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*Originally posted by Madhanee: *
Muniya, if I knew her, I will put her thru a meat grinder and make shami kababs out of her. That’ll teach her.
I am not screaming at her, but at the situation. I feel sorry for her. But my sorry ain’t gonna help her one bit. You are right, I have never been in this kind of situation. I had a brother-in-law who was abusive to my sister, so I know a little bit about how must it feel. You are right, every situation is different, in my brother-in-law’s case, I beat the daylights out of him (Madhanee style). 4 weeks in intensive care followed by two year of physical therapy was enough for him to get the hint. No one deserves disrespect or mistreatment and abuse.
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Sometimes women are not capable of getting out of an abusive situation alone for many many reasons, they need help fron outside, its not like they say, "now i will leave him", lets pack and go ...the questions comes, where will she go, who will help her and her kids, how will she survive financially, what will she do, its not an easy task to overcome such a situation WHEN ALONE, look even in your sister's case, you were there to help her and she knew that she had someone who will eventually protect her, if things go out of control, so to blame it to a female alone, that its her fault that she is still there might be wrong, it might be wrong that she did not ask for help, but if she did and nobody helped (inside or outside) the family then, she is not to blame for living in a miserable situation. IF ONLY guys/society would help such females and not pass by, then these abbusive husbands would never have a chance!!