Re: Deciding on who gets invited to a wedding…
It is upto the people who are more directly related to such persons to make that choice. I believe the bride and groom should show magnanimity and grace in allowing an invitation to be sent out if there is room for it in the budget and venue if the invitee so decides to call them
eg if it is a mamu u have bad blood with, it is upto the mom to decide whether she wants to invite her brother
if it is a chacha who has bad terms with family it is upto the dad to decide and so on