Re: Deciding on behalf of others
Isn't it a little too late to think of settling down concerns, after being gf/bf for some time? Don't people think before getting intimate with someone, oh, she's a spanish or french or pathan or whatever. They enjoy the bf/gf relationship (to whatever extent) and then one morning, they wake up and decide, oh she won't be able to fit into my family or culture ... DUH
I think guys take women for a ride, being intimate, enjoying the care, love, emotions, TLC, and then they just snap out of it, oh it's not gonna work out so before it gets messier, let me tell her the practical realities, or let me just walk away.
When women love, it means the whole world to them, so whoever is falling for anyone, should think twice before getting into a relationship. Love is a Major Responsibility. No one has the right to hurt someone or mock someone's pure love. Yes, sure she will understand in the end, when you put all cards on the table, look it's not gonna work out. What is she gonna do, beg you to let her love you, marry you? It's simple and easy, you tell her that's it, she'll be hurt, broken into pieces, but who sees that, and who cares! Move on, it's not practically feasible, right?
Ka'bay ko toriyeh, but-khana dhayieh .....
dil ko na toriyeh, ye khuda ka muqaam hai!