^What if he thought the Lennox would be a bit much for a first-time visit…and thought that it would be more appropriate as a second-time visit, eh? You may have whooped his butt for nothing, Roxx. Now he’ll go out in the community and tell people that you jumped him for not bringing you ivory colored dishware. That’ll just deter the other prospects. On the other hand…I guess it could ALSO make them more aware of what they should gift as guests.