Debate on our pakistani weddings--i want ur pole

[Reha]

Re: Debate on our pakistani weddings–i want ur pole

@Mezhgan

^Reha, I understand where you’re coming from but, with all due respect, the people that you mentioned who chose to get into debt to pay for weddings did so of their own free will. You cannot blame society for this as, ultimately, we have the last word when it comes to our decisions. I apologise if this sounds rather harsh but I’m not a fan of people blaming society for their own unwise decisions.

As far as not wanting to appear cheap or stingy and wanting to marry your daughters into a well off family, caring about what others think of you and seeking approval from them is also a choice.

I agree that its a cop out to blame society for it all…but I guess what bothers me is how we are the ones who make up society yet allow this to happen.

You don’t sound harsh at all and my perspective isn’t to attack anyone’s personal choices…marriages in my opinion are already made in heaven…they don’t need material glorification.