First of all, my request to all to please pray for my new born son Muhammad Owais, who died few days back … !
Can I get a reference from Holy Quran for the following :-
All children who die before reaching puberty will be in heaven. Not only that they will be go to heaven they will stand by their parents on the day of judgment and pray to Allah for their forgiveness.
I think there is a hadees that Anbiyaa (prophets), Shuhadaa (martyrs) and masoom bachchay can do shifaa'at of people and bachchay will do it for their parents.
Inna lillahi wa inna elayhe rajioon. I am sorry for your loss. No words can describe the pain you are feeling at the time. May Allah give you the patience.
Inna Lillahi Wa Inna Ilayhi Rajioun. I don’t recall a verse in Quran which directly tells you that children will go to heaven and that they will do ‘shifaa’ for their parents. Atleast themselves will be in heaven as it is clear that they are exempt from ‘fard’ acts like salaat, jihad, fasting etc.
"Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said, 'If any member of my people has two children who die before him, Allah will cause him to enter Paradise on their account.' Aisha asked, 'Does it apply to a member of your people who has one child who dies before him?' He replied, 'It does, you who have been helped by Allah to ask this.' She then asked, 'What about a member of your people who has no children who die before him?' He replied, 'I am the one who dies before my people, and they will never suffer any loss to compare with the loss of me.'" [Hadith Al-Tirmidhi, 1735]
"The daughter of the Prophet (peace be upon him) sent for the Prophet requesting him to come as her child was dying [or was gasping], but the Prophet returned the messenger and told him to convey his greeting to her and say: 'Whatever Allah takes is for Him and whatever He gives, is for Him, and everything with Him has a limited fixed term [in this world] and so she should be patient and hope for Allah's reward.' She again sent for him, swearing that he should come. The Prophet got up, and so did Sa'd bin 'Ubada, Muadh bin Jabal, Ubai bin Ka'b, Zaid bin Thabit and some other men. The child was brought to Allah's Apostle while his breath was disturbed in his chest [the sub-narrator thinks that Usama added:] as if it was a leather water-skin. On that the eyes of the Prophet (peace be upon him) started shedding tears. Sa'd said, 'O Allah's Apostle! What is this?' He replied, 'It is mercy which Allah has lodged in the hearts of His slaves, and Allah is merciful only to those of His slaves who are merciful [to others].'" [Hadith al-Bukhari 2.373]
We went with Allah's Apostle (peace be upon him) to the blacksmith Abu Saif, and he was the husband of the wet-nurse of Ibrahim [the son of the Prophet]. Allah's Apostle took Ibrahim and kissed him and smelled him and later we entered Abu Saif's house and at that time Ibrahim was in his last breaths, and the eyes of Allah's Apostle (peace be upon him) started shedding tears. 'AbdurRahman bin 'Auf said, "O Allah's Apostle, even you are weeping!" He said, "O Ibn 'Auf, this is mercy." Then he wept more and said, "The eyes are shedding tears and the heart is grieved, and we will not say except what pleases our Lord, O Ibrahim ! Indeed we are grieved by your separation." [Hadith al-Bukhari, 2.390]
Narrated by Abu Hurayrah: AbuHassan said to AbuHurayrah: My two children had died. Would you narrate to me anything from Allah's Apostle (saws) a hadith which would soothe our hearts in our bereavements? He said: Yes. Small children are the fowls of Paradise. If one of them meets his father (or he said his parents) he would take hold of his cloth, or he said with his hand as I take hold of the hem of your cloth (with my hand). And he (the child) would not take off (his hand) from it until Allah causes his father to enter Paradise. This hadith has been narrated on the authority of Tamim with the same chain of transmitters. And he is reported to have said: Did you hear from Allah's Apostle (saws) anything which may soothe our heart in our bereavements? He said: Yes.