Re: Death of a close one
my mother passed away 4 years ago after her by-paas operation(if these r the correct spellings), first year was terrible and keep on thinking what if we did not do operation etc. now i dont cry bcz now i think in different perspective. i think she is gone from this world but i will see her when i die as well. plus i always saw her in my dreams very happy , and they say that dreams do reflect the stat of dead ones. so this gives me strength that Allah has forgiven her and her she is really happy .
i know she is there, she is just not in this world anymore and it will be long time before i see her Inshallah.