Death of a child

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Re: Death of a child

inalilahi wa ina elehi rajeon

sadly this has happened to me before i was born. story goes something like this... my mom gave birth to a lovely baby girl. it was their 2nd child. they brought her home from the hospitial & everything was fine. Exactly after 3 weeks my mom had a dream, more like a nightmare. She dreamt that ZIA (baby) had died. My mom woke up crying. ZIA was laying next to her perfectly fine. My mom brushed the dream off. The next day my mom wakes up & realized that the baby hadn't cried all night. So my mom touched ZIA face & it was cold. My mom panicked & turned the light on & ZIA lips were blue. Rigor mortis had set in or "stiffness of death". Of course my parents cried there eyes out & became depressed but later they moved on. Reason being is my parents & ZIA never really had any memories. She came, lived for few weeks & ALLAH took her back.

I'm sad now that i'm talking about it. But usually we rarely talk about ZIA. I was born right after her. So i never met her & my other siblings never met her either.

Now on a happy note my parents had 5 kids to make up for their loss. haha...so don't worry. INSHALLAH your friends will move on quicker then you think. & ALLAH will bestow his blessings on them once again & they'll have healthy children. Ameen.

As a friend you can be there for him. Thats all you can do ...lend support. Over the phone seems "distant." I suggest you meet up with him in person.

Speak Arabic shoya shoya...
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Re: Death of a child

Hey I truly deeply appreciate all your inputs. Jazak Allah.

X2 - thank you my man. I appreciate your advice and will follow inshallah.

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Inna lillahi Wa Inna Ilaihi Rajeoon.

Jaanwar Allah aapko bhi aur aap kay dost aur uski family ko bhi sabr ata farmaay ameen.

Meri ammi ki bhi pehli aulaad zinda naheen rahee. Wo aksar uski baat karteen theen. Aaj tuk mujhay kabhi naheen samajh aai thi kay unko takleef huwi hogi ya hoti ho gi laikin aaj aap kis is thread aur sub ki post say pata chala kay unko kitni takleef hoti ho gi. Jab hi to aksar zikr karteen theen aur khuwaab main bhi daikhteen theen.

Aulad ya parents kay khonay ka dukh to bahar haal bohat hota hai. Allah jo bahtar samajhta hai karta hai. Sabr kay ilawa kuch naheen kia jaa saakta.

Koi baat naheen Allah aur aulaad day gi insha Allah. Meri dua hai Allah X2 ko bhi apni aulaad day ameen.

Phone pay ya aisay bhi mujh say to taziaati alfaaz bilkul naheen kiaay jaatay. Haan apni maujoodgi ya baar baar phone kar kay yay zaroor ahsaas dilata hoon kay aap kay dukh main main aap kay saath hoon.