Dear strong aunties of gs

there’s been a question brooding in my mind nd im curious to know what the answer is… how old were u when u had ur first child, how was ur experience. did u wish u had waited longer? wat if two people dun agree on when they want a child. Auntiyans of gs make me proud!

Re: Dear strong aunties of gs

i was 21 yrs old when my first child was born.the experience dont ask,but the wnd result was good:@:naah it was a perfect time ,,,

I love reading your posts,They are brief n you just hit the high points.
You rock

Re: Dear strong aunties of gs

I had my first child much later than I could have...6 years after I got married. No specific reason for the delay. Everything always falls in place. No regrets.

I had my first one when I was 22 and yes we both were ready for it.Its a nice experience well best experience of my life

Re: Dear strong aunties of gs

26 when my angel came into my life... Words can´t descirbe what a woman feels when she becomes a mother...

Re: Dear strong aunties of gs

btw, does that make us all aunties??? PLzzzzzzzzzz

Re: Dear strong aunties of gs

I had my baby 5 yrs after the marriage. We both were ready and loved every moment of it. I had smooth pregnancy.
Both parents need to be ready/agree to have a baby. Baby needs both parents love and care, so if one is not ready then the other one should wait or convince the sppouse.

Re: Dear strong aunties of gs

I was older when I had my first. Only regret is tht I didnt meet my knight in shining armor sooner! When you're in your 20s you have so much more energy to dedicate to your littles! So aside from being weary sometimes, no regrets!

Re: Dear strong aunties of gs

I just turned 27 when I had my 1st, was a good age. Wish I could have had 1st child by 25 ideally, but all is well that ends well. :)

Re: Dear strong aunties of gs

I had my first child when I was 24 and inshallah planning 2nd when I wud be 29

Re: Dear strong aunties of gs

i was 24 when i had my first baby n now plaaning to have a second at 27

Re: Dear strong aunties of gs

I first got pregnant and would have had our first child when i was 27. I miscarried and before i did i felt like i wasnt ready for a child but it happened. We kept trying and when i concieved hte next time a few months later, i felt like i was ready for the experience. You really need to be wanting the child in my opinion.

Re: Dear strong aunties of gs

I think the best age to have a baby is in ur mid to late 20s.. so you can spend enough time with them.. but any age is good as long as you know how to take care of them.

Re: Dear strong aunties of gs

i would have had my first child at 25, but unfortunately i miscarried twice.. i am hoping and praying to Allah for this pregnancy to be successful, inshaAllah..BTW i am due in november. i shall be 27 by that time inshaAllah..