[FONT="]couple of hypothetical anecdotes:
a) a guy who is in and out of a relationship with u, says one day he will call. so in the evening he calls, not that particularly someone was dying for him to call.
but, she give s a benefit of doubt.
he keeps the conversation BRIEF, and husky-light, amstel light. then, he says, abruptly cutting her off, as she was asking how was his day at work…
and says " i got to go, my train is waiting for me"
His train waits for him at Penn Station.
b) a date that she was suspicious of, (yeah, yeah - she bad), she went along to eat out a t a new restaurant and went only on this agreement that she would pay for both, so they went.
the guy, was asking all kinds of questions, who are u, where are u from, family, education, likes, dislikes, friends, etc…
and when for the first time, she asks a qs, "so, how u came here?, {as in what brought him here, i.e., in America }.
chewing meat on his plate, carelessly, he quips " on a plane."
now, do u & would u honestly, call it plain rude, or absorb it as an attempt at cold-turkey humor???
see, some women do not like it, when men are being way too smart for themselves, that they begin to look almost like perfect idiots, who do not have any psychiatric reasons to be in this idiot category.
blessing in disguise, may be 