I don t have an issue with annyone :o I m just teasing SS a bit 
SS? I didnt mean to offend you 
your a good person, p.s. sorry bout the camera, i ll make that up with you…
If I would have anny issue with anny one, I would talk about it personally with that person and not blurr it out on the open.
Sadzz, if they want just ONE PERSONS ADVICE why is it posted here? 
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*Originally posted by sadzzz: *
shikra, that really is upto the person who wants the advice isnt it? if they want several opinions or one.. its entirely their choice.. nopes?
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It is, If they want anonymously advice from several peeple, they should PM our good mods and ask them post.
If they want just to know what the MODS think, the MODS should give their advice back in PM :)
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*Originally posted by sadzzz: *
shikra, that really is upto the person who wants the advice isnt it? if they want several opinions or one.. its entirely their choice.. nopes?
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I can't open a thread without revealing my identity and if I ask Sobi to post my question in her thread on the top, then I am limited to her views only :-s I don't think people would take the time to PM me where they find it much easier to just click the botton and add their reply in the thread and may argue/discuss what others in that thread think.
cus maybe some other unfortunate person has the same problem… and the advice could help them?
dont mind me.. its called monday tantrums
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cus maybe some other unfortunate person has the same problem... and the advice could help them?
dont mind me.. its called monday tantrums
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and here we go again :)
and lets assume it s posted here, and lets say uhmmmmmm 10 guppies want to add different views on that PARTICULAR thread :) ???
like YOU said, they have to take the descission them selves dont they? won t it be better if they see several different opinions? :)
np happens btw :D
my advice: if u want to give ur own personal advice about a problem posted in SS/Shareens thread.. then open a new thread giving ur own advice… it’ll keep everyone happy :k:
And then admins will get angry because people are flooding the forum just like it used to happen in feedback where people used to open "X", "Re: X", "Re: Re: X", "Re: Re: Re: X" threds.
Like I said, I said what I wanted to say and I am sure a lot of people agree with what I am saying. I don't mind that thread continuing because I am getting a kick out of it :D
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*Originally posted by 2GooD2BTruE: *
No wonder he never came to you for advice.
Well that's just your opinion isn't it? As for me, I found that to be a pretty well-thought-out sound advice. If you have a problem with it ( assuming you are genuinely concerned about Lewis's well being), feel free to PM the mods. On the other hand, if you've already made up your mind that he is not worth your time, then stop patronizing someone who's actually trying. That's lame if you ask me.
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Sheesh Calm down.
Do you really think advising a muslim to marry a non muslim is good?, this would just create so many more problems, especially with his parents. Wouldnt it be better if she was asked to convert?
Guys like Lewis, who date these kind of women hardly ever end up marrying them, it rarely works out. Especially when the guy is still attached to his culture, things like 'still owe them a good bahu' and 'loving the urdu language and wouldnt dream of marrying a non urdu speaker'. I just said what these kinds of guys end up doing.
Btw I kinda agree with Shikra.
I think mods here just wanted to spice things up with this new advice column. You guys are helping.:p
Come on, as far as advice is concerned Im sure the person who asks knows he/she is only getting an opinion.
^ Why just one opinion? Why not a variety of opinion*s*? Everyone is willing to benefit others because "someone else might have the same issue", then why not let others reply as well so those "other people who might have the same issue" could get some more "opinions" as well?
hahaha
Flippin heck, I don’t believe the thread has got you people so wound up! To start with, the thread was open for all, but within a couple of minutes of opening it, it had a load of non thread related comments in there, so I decided to remove the comments and lock it so that only Shahreen and myself could reply.
Yes I could reply via PM, but then how would others benefit from my worldly advice? You guys should count yourself lucky, its not gonna be long before I start charging for my amazing advice giving skills 
Shikra/DP, do you guys even know what advice columns even are? People send letters to agony aunts, asking for advice and often choose to remain anonymous. The agony aunt gives advice, from * her * perspective, and whether or not the person with the problem acts on the advice is entirely his/her decision. I’ve read Dear Diedre in the Sun sooooo many times and not agreed with what she as to say but I respect the person has written in specifically for her advice, not mine. The people that write those PMs know that they will only be getting my opinion, unless they specifically ask for it to be open for everyone’s response, in which case I’d post it in a different thread (where you guys could reply), and leave the persons ID anonymous. So far, nobody has asked for this.
To those of you that want a funny piss taking kinda thread, go read some of my other stuff. This thread is purely serious and I can’t really see the benefit of making a joke out of a problem that someone has taken the time to send me.
Any more for any more?
Lussi, 