dear abby...help!

Well folks I may have hit bullseye more than once last night at the singles event. I was approached by 6 men all night, 2 of whom I would like to get to know, more than the others. :blush: Now the question is, how do I go about getting to know BOTH of them initially. I mean, they don’t live in the same area BUT the way it seemed, it looked like they knew each other at least casually. Advice needed.

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sweety it was nice meeting you.

check out the precinct for their mugshots if any… that should be a good start :k:

Take it sloww... no offence but u have opened quite a few threads bout men that r intrested in u.. .. n every new thread indicates the past one didntt work out or sumthiun (dont tell me to bring them out.. i really cant go around searchin for them)
but jus take it slow...
with whomever.. n give it more than a week.. obviosuly..

oh n if u do talk to him.. do mention casually that u met the other guy.. so they dont think ure playin both of them

^ or be careful that their not playing with you in your case.

PakAbroad, haha very funny.

Mads uncle, I seemed to have chemistry with both as they’re both men that I am quite attracted to.

Devil, sorry to give the impression that my past threads reveal relationships not worked out. They’re probably just scenarios for the most part and nothing more so don’t read anything into them that isn’t there to begin with.

PM, definitely good advice.

Thanks all :flower1:

Sweetpie, I really can't help but love you! Your my most beshtesht guppy in the whole wide world, I swear!

hmmmmmmm.. if ure attracted to both of them.. then get to kno them.. n whoever annnoy u the most.. get rid of him…

be honest with both of them, let them know u r interested , get to know both of them, then which ever scores more points in ur top ten must-have-qualities-in-huband list. chose him. man u've been through so many men.. what is it that u want really? what r u searching for? no one is perfect, not even u.

^Suroor, me been through “so many men”? I think that is a matter of perception. Good advice though. Thanks :flower1:

And women accuse men of playin :rolleyes: Welcome to modern feminist double standards.

What’s so “feminist” and “double-standard” about all this? Jeez :rolleyes:

If a guy was getting to know two girls at the same time, the world would make a big deal out of it. He would be a player etc. Double standards. Deal with one guy at a time.

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If a guy was getting to know two girls at the same time, the world would make a big deal out of it. He would be a player etc. Double standards. Deal with one guy at a time.
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I hear ya there bro.!

One of the gentlemen called me today and asked me to a New Year’s party but I politely refused as I have made plans for tomorrow night already but told him that we should reschedule. (The other person is away on a business trip but e-mailed me to say hello). Now I am getting nervous as things may be getting a bit off the ground right about now. Jeez, I feel like a novice sometimes at this.

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