Well folks I may have hit bullseye more than once last night at the singles event. I was approached by 6 men all night, 2 of whom I would like to get to know, more than the others. Now the question is, how do I go about getting to know BOTH of them initially. I mean, they donât live in the same area BUT the way it seemed, it looked like they knew each other at least casually. Advice needed.
Take it sloww... no offence but u have opened quite a few threads bout men that r intrested in u.. .. n every new thread indicates the past one didntt work out or sumthiun (dont tell me to bring them out.. i really cant go around searchin for them)
but jus take it slow...
with whomever.. n give it more than a week.. obviosuly..
oh n if u do talk to him.. do mention casually that u met the other guy.. so they dont think ure playin both of them
Mads uncle, I seemed to have chemistry with both as theyâre both men that I am quite attracted to.
Devil, sorry to give the impression that my past threads reveal relationships not worked out. Theyâre probably just scenarios for the most part and nothing more so donât read anything into them that isnât there to begin with.
be honest with both of them, let them know u r interested , get to know both of them, then which ever scores more points in ur top ten must-have-qualities-in-huband list. chose him. man u've been through so many men.. what is it that u want really? what r u searching for? no one is perfect, not even u.
If a guy was getting to know two girls at the same time, the world would make a big deal out of it. He would be a player etc. Double standards. Deal with one guy at a time.
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If a guy was getting to know two girls at the same time, the world would make a big deal out of it. He would be a player etc. Double standards. Deal with one guy at a time.
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One of the gentlemen called me today and asked me to a New Yearâs party but I politely refused as I have made plans for tomorrow night already but told him that we should reschedule. (The other person is away on a business trip but e-mailed me to say hello). Now I am getting nervous as things may be getting a bit off the ground right about now. Jeez, I feel like a novice sometimes at this.