Re: Dealing with...
Stop thinking about the fact that you will lose her. Think of her as the person who is here, now. This is not an issue for which you can think ahead, and it will be all whoopdeedoo I am sorted out and planned out for the future. She is here, now. Spend as much time as you can with her now. You probably have done it already, but notice what makes her happy, what makes her sad, etc etc. Live in the moment with her.