Re: Dealing with…
how about CALM DOWN first..and people wont stop feeling sorry for you until you stop feelings sorry for yourself. Life and death is in Allah’s hands, first you need to accept that and then pray for patience. Whatever life she has she probably wants to spend it with her loved ones(YOU) so do not make it any harder for her than it already is. Death is part of life, accept it. One day you will die too, one day this world will die too actually, this world is temporary.
Inshallah this will pass too. 