how does one deal with a bad news, health related.
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everyone has to die.. u born, u live, u die..
so enjoy the transition..
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:) thanks faizy,
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hardest part however, is to find the news that u're diagnosed/caught with a situation where u have limited time..
in that case, i recommend, trying to finish duties-part of life asap.. loans/people's rights etc..
death is easy, and peaceful.. cuz life is hard
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It depends what kind of health problem danny. If it is nonlife threatening and with medicines it can be taken care of then surely try to avoid the stuff that caused it and listen to ur doc.
Take advantage of that news and try to mend the faults in ur life.
Hint: don’t repeat the same mistakes as (by chance) made by you b4.
Try to keeep urself in fit 
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Research everything you can about whatever the news is.
Either wrap up your duties, or help the person who recieved the news complete theirs. Ask what you can do to help make that person's last days as fulfilling as possible. Pray for the person, help them make the hajj, if that obligation still exists and it is possible.
If it is something that is long term and debilitating, then research as much as you can to find the best ways to live with the situation. Enroll in drug trials, try alternative therapies if conventential treatments don't work. Dont' sit back and let the illness control you. Be proactive.
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it depends on how bad the illness is
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stay happy..keep a smile on your face..
if you start feelin’ depressed, there isn’t much anyone or anything else can do to make you feel better.
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what happened?
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Illness is a tough thing. I usually ask Allah to help those in need. Prayer is my solace.
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i carry on as normal and pretend that evrythings alright - because otherwise i know my family will worry (and fuss!!!)
i've just been told 2day that i have a cyst - don't know yet if its cancerous or not, but havin some tests. I've told my parents nothings wrong, altho i think my mum knows something is. But, anyhow i'm not worrying, just hoping everything will be alright - and go to my appointment in a couple of weeks.
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i've just been told 2day that i have a cyst - don't know yet if its cancerous or not, but havin some tests. I've told my parents nothings wrong, altho i think my mum knows something is. But, anyhow i'm not worrying, just hoping everything will be alright - and go to my appointment in a couple of weeks.
I'll keep you in my thoughts. all the best. and let me know what the results are in two weeks.
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You stay positive and calm