What would you call someone who pretends to be something they’re not? You are really close to them ( a best friend perhaps) but they hide things from you. At times you feel like saying to them " Do you think i’m stupid I won’t find out?". It hurts when your other friends give you information about them. When you piece things together it makes sense. Do you just carry on pretending that you believe everything or do you ignore?
Re: dealing with things
i don't think you should just pretend that everything is fine.. why carry that burden and have to pretend when the one who's jeopardizing the friendship is your friend? if its something very personal then I can understand that they might not have wanted everyone to know about it, that's fine.. or maybe it's a small thing to them and they didn't find it important enough to share... but if they're shutting you out or hiding things, then I'd be very guarded around them. try talking to them about it if you're comfortable with that.
Re: dealing with things
this shows their lack of self confidence. u don't need to pretend and one must take the friend what they are rather what they pretend to be. sure, it hurts when u find out the truth. no1 should shed a tear for that person coz he/she wasn't worth it :)
**Arrey mian aisey logon ka self confidence tu asman per hota hai aur woh apney aap ko bara turam khan samjhty hain:D
Aur ulta laug mujh jaisey bandey ko kehty hain kt tum her cheez kion sahih sahih batati hu bat baniya kero bat banan seekhu:hehe: Ab itna kuch seekha yeh seekhna zara mushkil hai.
Halan key main bara berdasht kerti hon shuru main bilkull ignore koi bewaquf samjh raha hai samjhney do magar aik waqat atta hai ke aur bewaquf nahi baan jata aur haqeeqat batani perti hai yahan per sab kehty hain bewaquf jaat ki zaban aur dimagh paiya haio:(
**