TLK
December 18, 2010, 9:25pm
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Re: dealing with rishta rejection
how do ya deal with getting rejected from a rishta that you actually liked?? it sucks really really bad. reason for rejection was not disclosed. !!! if going back to pakistan wasn’t such a hard thing to do financially and mentally then this wouldn’t sting so bad! goshhhhh!!! I feel so low right now. i’ve prayed and I accept all is in the power of my creator but can’t help but feel a little hopeless. i mean i don’t see a reason to reject, i am ok not drop dead gorgeous but I am acceptable, i am fairly well educated masters in education ok not a doc maybe not desi enough but decent enough, i have fairly good values. whyyy!!! i feel so immature and i’m sorry but i just had to vent. and then to say for a month ok we are undecided, and then say we currently have no immediate plans due to visa issues kinda maddening. shouldn’t have lead me on.
dont take it as rejection hoor bano. take as someone’s call of lack of compatibility. Maybe it was something in them that they thought they are not your qabil.