Re: Dealing with Rejection
If rishtas ever rejected me, I never paid any attention to it. Is it because Im hard-headed? Unemotional? I dont know. I cant remember a time when it bothered me. Marriage was never something I saw myself doing. Now, things are different.
A J-O-B is a different story now! Often times, I can pick up on what the issue might have been and try to improve on it. Other times, there is no way to know so you fine tune your skills and keep trying until you succeed. Yes, I feel hurt but its momentary.
Friends. This is interesting. Ive seen people who have shied away from seeing me again. But I can usually pinpoint the reason behind it. If I cant, its alright. Im not supposed to get along with everyone. Plus, Ive got all the friends I need so I wont really be missing their presence.
The way I deal with rejection: So what? This world is humungous and somewhere out there, Allah swt has made a man, a job, a friend, etc. with my name written all over it in big, black, permanent marker. I just have to find it. :)