Cant we all just respect each others opinions and respond with respect, and if thats not possible then not respond at all? And please dont go to extends of DAUGHTERS! we would all wish the best for our children you really need to watch how you speak to another person and what you say, you arent any superior then another one.
Anywho, Ms. Emaan, it really is your iman that will speak for you. As of what I have heard, marrying a jew or chris or any ehle-qitab for a women is not forbidden but disliked. The reasons are valid too you just need to do a little more research. But then again its your life, your the one whose going to live it and you have every right to happiness. Following Islamic laws isnt the only requirement to be a good muslim, you have to be a good person a good human you acts are what counts. So dont let yourself be forced by people and the traditions and what not. Its between you and your God.