Re: dealing with loving and caring yet attention seekers?!
People have their own way of apologizing. Your apology is accompanied with comforting, which you expect from her and then you’re bummed when she doesn’t. I think it’s enough that someone has the ability to admit their mistakes and even say 'I’m sorry"…many people are unable to do even that. So, from now on just offer a simple, heartfelt apology and skip the comfort session. If you don’t give it yourself, you’re less likely to expect the same and to keep score. It is up to you to decide whether you want to discuss this with your sister when she’s in a better mood. You can tell her that you’d like for both of you to just offer simple, sincere apologies and to move on from the offense easily…without crying and dwelling on it further. If you think this will make matters worse, don’t say anything and just change your approach. When she sees a change in your response, she’ll slowly change hers.