--Dealing With BULLIES?

Monk · November 14, 2007, 1:42pm

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Tell you daughter to put up with her.
Not easy but it will solve the issue for good.

Ask99 · November 14, 2007, 10:16pm

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Thank You all for your suggestions. Its kinda hard to see my daughter going through this. I dont recall anything like that when I was in school. I dont remember kids teasing others or maybe I because I used to be the kid who would beat others.No I wasnt a bully, its just people knew not to take panga, so they kept their distance, and so did I.:)

Krypton · November 14, 2007, 10:17pm

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just continue being nice in return!

its a ard situation bcuz, they just wanna BULLY u, no matter how u treat or act.

kuch kero gey bhi to...aur nahi bhi tau,...

Krypton · November 14, 2007, 10:20pm

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um noo dont jsut being the teacherrrr inn

i dunnno how to explain:s

theyll do a frekain “counselling” session…

n jsut uhh:bummer:

massive · November 14, 2007, 10:35pm

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just shout out Allah u Akbar and watch that bully run.....lol

Ask99 · November 14, 2007, 10:49pm

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that may just be the tool

Ask99 · November 14, 2007, 10:51pm

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Thats wat she is doing right now…being nicer to her.Sorry was in a hurry…But apart from that Im planning to put her into a self defence class and also giving it a week and then talking to the teacher.Lets see if it works.And for the counselling, the Bully should get some, not the kids that r being affected

Krypton · November 14, 2007, 10:53pm

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i hv a question, did i type the last quote?

how did u UNDERSTAND that

mustv been in a hurry:smack:

canpaki · November 14, 2007, 11:36pm

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How stupid was that?!!

My older daughter is being bullied by a class mate. It was not a big issue in the beginning but now since their seating changed, this bully kid is sitting next to her now. This girls constantly tries to get in her face as to speak. I have tried telling my daughter to walk away(now she cant as she is sitting next to her) to just laugh it off instead of getting angry. I dont want to bail her out of the situation by talking to her teacher and changing seats etc. I dont want my daughter to think that there is an “easy button” for her to press and things will be taken care of.I have seen that she doesnt stand up for herself..and that is the thing I want her to do instead of being shoved pushed etc by whoever has more power.
Today she didnt want to go to school, the affect is apparent as she is having bouts of anger at home that is usually directed at her younger sibling.
Any tips or experiences? I dont know what else to do except for maybe put her in self defence classes.

u no what my mom taught me…if a kids bullies u…bully em back……thas the desi way i guess…

Man_with_a_Plan · November 15, 2007, 1:52am

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Look at this way, if she was an adult and someone was bugging her she would tell the authorities than taking the law in your own hands or becoming the same person you despise. It is like standing up for yourself. It teaches her to stand up for what is wrong and if it happens with some of her friends, she will give them the same advice.