dealing with bad relatives..

you are being nice to them all the time even when they are mean…n they still dnt get any better and keep on improving with their mean and gritty behaivour…i just hate it wen it comes to the point of my parents respect n i feel the urge to talk to them n bring them down to earth…i did it once…n it was worth it…i showed her wat shez made of…but she never learned…n my parents just keep on trying to avoid the argument and then eventually she push it to the limit wen it turns into a yelling argument…

i wonder how can people be so mean and witty alll the time…n lie everytime they talk…
i just cant believe anyone can be so bad n i dnt understand wat made them like this…
we were all born good,aint we??

Re: dealing with **** relatives..

:lifey:

Now thats what I am talking about.

Re: dealing with **** relatives..

Some people behave this way due to a superiority-complex, which in fact is an an inferiority complex..... or it can also stem out of jealousy/envy.

Re: dealing with bad relatives..

i cant even begin to explain how mad i am rite now...i cant control the urge to go up to her n give her a piece of mind...therez a limit to being bad too...i have been bad too n after a while the guilt brings me down to earth again...

Ah trust me nothing suprises me anymore. A mother loses a child and relatives blame her for the death, how worse can it get? Trust me its not worth your anger, best to distant urself from people who wish bad for u and make difficult times worse for u. Regardless of whether they are relatives or not!!

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I say you just give them the cold shoulder and avoid em as much as you can ... some people are just not worth it ... i don't have many close relatives that i associate myself with but yea frnds or more like ex-frnds now have been total morons so yeai stopped hangin out with them and avoided them completely and totally

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yes dont show any intersest.

What gets on my nerves is relative who have treated you like dirt soooooooo many times.....and you've shown tolerance and patience sooooooooo many times. And then eventually you've had it and decide to maintain a distance from them..............and they have the audacity to accuse YOU of holding a grudge or having the "attitude problem".

It vexes me that it's much easier for them to blame you for having the "attitude problem"...............RATHER than put their pride to the side and reflect over all the things that they've done in the past that might be causing your so-called offended "attitude" (which is justified).

It's like such relatives think expect you to have unlimited tolerance of THEIR numerous idiocies. But if you slip up...they can't take it. They're that weak, that arrogant.