Dealing with bad neighbors..

[Paheli00]

Re: Dealing with bad neighbors..

@Chicken_Biryani

I think many people fear that such people, who are on the wrong side with the police and have suspicious people coming to their property and police every other day at their home, can become risky to be friends with .

I would also fear that if they knew too much about us , it wont benefit us in anyway , you know , keeping a low profile for them so you dont catch their attention ! I guess that’s not a good strategy?

No it’s not. People like that, especially if they’re your neighbors, notice you regardless of how low of a profile you try to keep. In fact, they may pay more attention if they think you have a negative opinion of them (even if its justified).

You don’t need to become their best friend or share details of your personal life. Simply smile, wave, and say “hi how’re you doing?” when you see them outside. If they seem friendly them make general comments about weather, looking forward to the weekend (if its near end of the week), being excited about an upcoming holiday, being tired after running after your kids all day whatever. General comments they can relate to and maybe contribute to….but nothing personal about your life/schedule.

If you knew for a fact that these people were serious criminals…like have records for murder, attempted murder, rape, involved in a gang etc….then I’d say be VERY cautious. But from your description so far, it seem like they’re petty criminals. While you should take caution in your own home….you have nothing to lose by being friendly and showing a little respect when you come across them.