duffer, its not about ppl revieling “deadly secrets” about you… most ppl who backbite add mirch masala to stories to sound convincing… the stuff that was said about the “close” person above did NOT have an iota of truth in it…
and MA its good that u dont tell anyone stuff about yourself to others… I carry the same policy… family se behtar friends ko’e nahi hote… Ammi kehti haiN