Re: Dealing with backbiting
lol…i tell them that do it, do it after me, and whenever you do it- do lemme know so i can leave and get your sawab and give you mine gunnah!
khud he chup ho ker beth jati hain 
and losing frndz, o come on!
well first i dont have any deadly secrets to be veiled where i gonna need frndz, as per you definition of frnd.
so ppl make me their frnds i dont. i help them in any way they want. otherwise for my own problems i directly talk to my mother and share with her.
and the teacher, and pray to ALLAH SWT to make it happen if its good for me.
otherwise you have to lose many things at some point in time.
p.s. btw i dont have frndz or i dont make frndz, who gonna die if i am not there.
-per tum, or (teen or frndz) sa-pay-shell ho 