If Day Care means sending children to a place where the carer can love the child more than the mother I'm all up for it.
Psyah - That is place is no where but again that is an ideal world. A mother cannot be everywhere for her children.
Great caretakers come in all different shapes - some are siblings, fathers, grandparents, aunts, uncles. Some are great teachers, imams. All play a role in taking and grooming a child.
A mother can only do so much.