Dealbreakers

Lifestyle Relationships
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I honestly don’t see a problem, but i suppose it depends on what you are used too. I have an uncle with 15 children, no-one does birth control in my family:cb:

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I don't see the problem with too many kids. How does someone's clear preference for unprotected sex reflect on their family values?

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Grounds for ending a marriage! How precious is that.

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^ others are not openly saying.....but its implied always :D

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haha, I totally missed that part. Not at all surprising though.

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affairs, drugs, alchohol, violence, abuse.

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Cheating and Physical/Verbal Abuse.

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Yeah sometimes I feel I’ve lived too long to see times like this :sigh: Why would it matter how many siblings a guy has? And seriously, family values?

Hi Jaanwar, meet Deeba!

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I know. Everyone knows it’s haram to use condoms anyway, if anything the guy’s family actually has better values :rotato:

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Jaanwar, I would never in the first place marry a guy who wants to stay in mummy and daddy's home his whole life (if in practically every other culture in the world men can move out of their childhood bedroom I can't see what the problem would be for desi men) but I never said I would end a marriage over it, did I??

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[note]Opened after being cleaned, please keep it clean[/note]

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wow. this is an old thread.

makes me want to watch that 30 rock episode again.

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Sweetcheeks, this is not the first time I have read your enlightened and progressive views on here, and all I am going to say is nothing surprises me anymore, and knowing that there are ladies out there who sport and support such views surprisingly doesn't even bother me anymore.

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It shouldn't surprise you that girls would like to live with their husbands in their own home, it's not considered a big deal in most other cultures. Guys who want to stay in their parents' homes forever by all means go ahead but to minimise the tears and tantrums would be better to check that the fiancee is ok with that in the first place rather than expecting her to just put up and shut up.

**(I've said a million times before I wouldn't live with my inlaws in their home but they're welcome to come and live with us if they're old or lonely **and before some idiot comes on here and makes out what a bad person I must be to leave them to rot it's hardly 'abandoning' them, is it)

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If she says she can't ever live with my parents.

I would say: Stay with 'your' parents then.

The point is there should not be such a hype about it.