Dealbreakers

funky_nails · February 21, 2011, 12:53am

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hmmm ok stop laughing and say something usefull...

sarab · February 21, 2011, 12:55am

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Not a deal breaker, infact i would say thats a good thing, at least they arent one of those families that have to live in the same street and not be anymore that 1 mile away.
I like big families (I'm one of seven) and I intend to have at least 5 children, inshallah 8.

CEO1 · February 21, 2011, 12:57am

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If she drank, smoked cigarettes, if she had loads of bf's etc. Normal ones. I guess...

Sara516 · February 21, 2011, 1:00am

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If you're from a small family and u'll be "living" with all 8 siblings, then hell yeah thats a dealbreaker. But if they're spread out and u dont have to live with them 24/7 then dont see why that would be.

and what's with a person's family values if they have lots of kids?

Sara516 · February 21, 2011, 1:00am

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oh dealbreaker for me would be death.

funky_nails · February 21, 2011, 1:01am

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tx sarab.. i understand ur views...

tx CEO, these are indeed the mostly obvious ones...

CEO1 · February 21, 2011, 1:03am

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Humour...I love it.

Sara516 · February 21, 2011, 1:03am

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Yeah but I'm serious :)

Deeba1234 · February 21, 2011, 1:03am

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Cheating, abuse, control issues, moving in with his parents..

funky_nails · February 21, 2011, 1:04am

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Well sara the thing is i know this guy who has 11 siblings... i find that crazy in this era, birthcontrol?? and indeed if ur not living with them it should not be a problem, but to me it still sounds very complicated... so many people to please :s
anyway i jus wanted peoples opinion on this, and posting here makes me realise for me it is a dealbreaker...

sarab · February 21, 2011, 1:05am

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OT but I just realised I am now a senior member only a few hundred more posts to go before I unleash my avatar

Deeba1234 · February 21, 2011, 1:06am

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I wouldn't mind if he had loads of siblings as long as we don't have to live with them or they aren't financially dependent on him..

Sara516 · February 21, 2011, 1:06am

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Well if you dont want to marry someone who has lots of siblings then don't go for it

Waise bhi, compatibility is important and someone going from a small family to a large family IS going to have compability issues....some can deal with it some cant.

sarab · February 21, 2011, 1:07am

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Well at least you know what you want and there is nothing wrong with that.

funky_nails · February 21, 2011, 1:09am

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true, but it already can get messy with just few siblings and MIL/FIL.. and also i would not want to spend all my vacations with visiting them, since there are so many in other countries...

Sara516 · February 21, 2011, 1:10am

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Nothing wrong with knowing what you want. But I can so imagine people getting offended over it. Oh well :)

sarab · February 21, 2011, 1:11am

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Oh well you will have to hunt for an only child to marry :)

funky_nails · February 21, 2011, 1:14am

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if u were in the situation u might respond different... but oh well :)

Sara516 · February 21, 2011, 1:16am

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cmon u gotta admit..2-3-4 siblings is nice, but 11…

funky_nails · February 21, 2011, 1:19am

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hehe yess indeed... i would honoustly prefer him to have a few siblings...