Everyone is or has been in relationships. Some are long lasting, others fail miserably. One thing that is hard to determine is whether a relationship is good for you or not.
How do you know if you are in a dead end relationship?
People think that you fall in love and get married. Is marriage the finish line?
This is a hard question. But I think having a successful relationship is about having a real plan for the future together, and both people having the means and motivation to contribute to and realize that plan. This gives a relationship purpose.
Whether you're talking about Western-style dating or a purely arranged marriage, when people allow themselves to simply fall into a relationship because it's convenient, it's what their parents want, etc., often have a harder time finding that purpose in their relationship. Factors like children, religious faith, etc., can force a purpose, but I think when the mentality that 'we have a mission together in life, and this is how we're going to accomplish it' is missing, a relationship can feel very empty regardless of whether the couple stays together or not.
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sure, it may be, if you consistently depend on the other person to take initiative in the relationship....it all depends on YOUR approach, combined with mutual effort and understanding..
*people who think they are the only ones making the relationship work..then it is a dead end ...vice versa....
key to a lasting relationship is being expressive is every way possible...believe in each other, and dont forget or let the other person forget that you love them.
Everyone is or has been in relationships. Some are long lasting, others fail miserably. One thing that is hard to determine is whether a relationship is good for you or not.
How do you know if you are in a dead end relationship?
People think that you fall in love and get married. Is marriage the finish line?
when its the right person you will know.
MWP, remember if you are afraid of failing then you are not going to give it your best. let it play out, see what happens. it might make you stronger
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When a girl refuses to kiss you and you drive back to your home listening to Nusrat Fateh's qwwalis
when its the right person you will know.
MWP, remember if you are afraid of failing then you are not going to give it your best. let it play out, see what happens. it might make you stronger
Bro, this thread isn't about me...I have been into lot of chat pati * and * mazeedar relationships. :D
This is a hard question. But I think having a successful relationship is about having a real plan for the future together, and both people having the means and motivation to contribute to and realize that plan. This gives a relationship purpose.
Whether you're talking about Western-style dating or a purely arranged marriage, when people allow themselves to simply fall into a relationship because it's convenient, it's what their parents want, etc., often have a harder time finding that purpose in their relationship. Factors like children, religious faith, etc., can force a purpose, but I think when the mentality that 'we have a mission together in life, and this is how we're going to accomplish it' is missing, a relationship can feel very empty regardless of whether the couple stays together or not.
What do you mean by real plan for the future?
Bro, this thread isn't about me...I have been into lot of chat pati * and * mazeedar relationships. :D
i was surprised.
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Why were you surprised?
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Danial??? 
LOL, i dont know, just was.
yes, c’est moi.
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Are we in 2005? :aq:
LOLLL
I Jokhe!
How do you know if you are in a dead end relationship?
lol - you just know it's a dead end relationship when you are using the shoulder of the person in relationship to cry on ONLY till you can wipe off your tears...and boost you ego up and then say khudahafiz!
so mean. (I never did this though) - zarur koi show mai dekha hoga =)
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Dead end is where you dont have anymore growth or potential for a future. Marriage isnt necessarily the finish line for all but I think its a matter of growing and maturing together.
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^It's really a dead end relationship if one person wants to stay in relationship and the other does not. =(
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^ I agree
Everyone is or has been in relationships. Some are long lasting, others fail miserably. One thing that is hard to determine is whether a relationship is good for you or not.
How do you know if you are in a dead end relationship?
People think that you fall in love and get married. Is marriage the finish line?
i think its just the start.....
