what is the Pakistani cultural norm for 2 young people getting to know each other? what is the proper way to go about it? do feelings play a part in this?
na...no feelings, no senses...
just let the "abba ka danda" and "amma ki jooti" play the whole part here.
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Even real Gora not you ,know that Indian /Pakistani most of Asia have there own culture which does not have Western Lingos like technicolour eyes ,dirty blonde hair ,mini skirts,oral sex,three some ,pre marital .Next plz dont ask the norm in Pakistani culture about Pre neptual 
Academia and places of work, other than tailgating her tanga on your cycle or catching glimpses of her from the kotha. (yours, not hers).
aap beetee pumpoo???
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Since when is blond hair, oral sex, three somes, and pre-marital sex solely a “western” thing? They existed way, way before the western world did.
globalization is leading to the same sort of culture everywhere....
Hey lets not forget dinner parties, Eids, and weddings where you bump into that friend of your female cousin or vice versa. Even in the traditional Pakistani culture people do visit each other and many times there are conversations. I think these days email has become a major aspect of communication, but that can be a "western" influence by some peoples standards.
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thank you for your views, everyone...much appreciated.
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Hey FRET 
I dont have time to discuss unprovable claims :nono: 
DON’T FRET ,i am talking of present i dislike history ..Not interested in your Intellect
Nice to know you keep track of history of thses things !!!:k: :k:
IT STILL DOESNT MAKE THEM PART OF INDO PAK HISTORY OR DOES IT …???
Wesren region was always western that never changed.Or are you like Indian hindus who think Space travel & Missiles were present 6000 yrs ago right when they claim hinduism began…???
I dont have time to discuss unprovable claims :nono: DON’T FRET ,i am talking of present i dislike history ..Not interested in your Intellect
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Unprovable claims? So what you’re saying is that pre-marital sex, blond hair, and oral sex were discovered when Columbus landed in the west, and are unproven to have existed before that? Are you that ignorant? It’s a fact that oral sex/premarital sex/adultery existed in ancient civilizations. So yes, all this was being practiced that long ago at least. Hey, look, you learned something new today, now you can tell your friends, and show them how smart you pretend to be.
Right, people who don’t know about history, usually don’t like it. Ok, let’s talk of present times. Does pre-marital/Oral sex only happen in North America? Do people in Europe and Asia not do this stuff at all? You have a lot of learning to do about the world.
fret, excellent responses! :k:
Confused ignorent & illiterate fret
Teach your GURU meaning of WEST ..west is not America only but West of ASIA .Western culture is present in EAST too HERE tell your guru WEST is an adjective of decadent morality
kaddu:
moona: Feelings don’t play a part in it really…bas achanak uthay…dil main aai aur chal so chal! Of course they do.. 
warna koi game nahin ho sakti.
Um, talking about various segments of the society…depending upon the social setup…the situations may vary from those depicted by PA all the way to those expressed by armughal.
We’ve got quite a variety here actually..something for all of us :~)
insightful, khanzada...thanx!
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dating haram in islam moona so its out of the question its a western tradition which is being adapted by muslims how bad allah toobah