Re: dating while married
jaanaan - as for your question about general tendency, I believe in most of the cases they move on and close the previous ventures/adventures. Which is a very decent thing to do. Dating has become very common, but once you settle down, you settle down.
In some cases, women do keep those old ties. And if they are seeing other guys while they are married, it definitely is cheating. One shouldn't to others what they would not like done to themselves, if that makes sense.
aramis - honey that is an interesting assumption, but to your disappointment that pink thing is not happening in all cases.