Dating someone taller or shorter than you...

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well said, and it is the secret of successful life after marriage, and even in other relations as well

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there's no denial to this ..:)

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yeh tall-short kya laga rakha hai? If she can cook, she's perfect for you.

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Hmm i really didnt think my point was that hard to grasp...

So judging someone on physical attributes is immature someone says and also it is shallow to not prioritise the personality someone says...

Now listen...heres a few scenarios and maybe then you might understand what i mean...

Scenario 1 is me meeting a girl who is nice but i find im not really that attracted to her...cos of that i dont see her again...she may have had a great personality had i got to know her but being attractive is a prerequisite for me...

Scenario 2 is i might a girl who is absolutely stunning...but as i get to know her she bores the hell out of me and im just not feeling her...sure she looks good but i dont want to get with her as such...so she get the chop aswell...

Now scenario 3...i meet a girl she is stunning and has all the physical attributes i would ever want...i get to know her and realise shes a really good girl now how great is that iv met a girl who i think is physically atractive who i also get on with really well and this is the one i spend my time pursuing and getting with...

Hence why the girlfriend will always be attractive...she'll only get there if she is but simply being attractive isnt going to get her there...shes got to be girlfriend quality...

What i will say though is having a good personality will naturally make you more attractive...my ex is probably not the best looking girl iv dated but she had better qualities than some of the shady more attractive girls iv met hence why she ended up being my girlfriend...but that doesnt detract from the fact that my ex was very attractive physically anyway...

Being attractive is a prerequisite in the initial stages and personality is the important thing to see it through...

Now explain how thats shallow?...

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NbN, forgive me but you sound too much of a play boy... and that's not attractivE!!!!..... forgive me, as i said........ there is no fun in having so many "ex"s.... every girl that moves in, and eventually out, of your life leaves a scar that wont go away for ages... so be wise...

anyhow, as for the looks/ personality etc etc..... I'll share with you a thought/an advise/ words of wisdom once said by a great scholar ( and becuase he was so wise it just stuck me and I've clung to it ever since)... he said if the lady is beautiful then she'll attract you for 2-3 weeks after wedlock...... but if she is an "insaan ki bachi" then she'll attract you for the rest of your life....... if she is both " then the looks are an icing on the cake" and not vice versa!!!.... and no one really buys a cake just becuase of the icing, if the cake is crappy you might as well throw it out!!

my two cents,....

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Born wela...

I get the impression you didnt grasp what i was implying...

Firstly many girls arent exes at all...to be an ex you have to of been my girlfriend in the first place...and that would be scenario 3...not the easiest thing to achieve...normally i end up meeting scenario 2...

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height can matter in some cases.. but its nuttin that cant be overlookd.. a person cud be tall and yet have no maturity factor/personality.. and be short and yet totally blow u away!!

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NbN...... so you keep trying new girls? isnt that pathetic enough?

aray yaar, there is so much more to do in life then chick hunting!!

if you get into a habit of it you wont stop hunting chicks even after marriage, quit it already...

no offence... just sharing my thoughts..

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Born wela...
No offence taken...
Firstly as for trying new girls and for that being pathetic...well yeah i do...if im meeting a girl and im not liking her then i finish it and then ill meet another girl...if i like her then she becomes my girl...whats pathetic about that exactly?...you dpnt get with everyone you meet...

And as for their being more to life than chick hunting im well aware of that...lol it onne aspect of my life among a lot of others...

Il ove the desi way of looking at things...if a guy sees girls then his whole life must revolve around that fact...ill quite happily say that those who struggle in this area make this a much bigger issue than i...

And as for this habit damaging a marriage...when im married iv chosen my chick havent i...lol seeing a lot of chicks doesnt mean you dont understand monogamy...and ill even say im less likely to stray than others cos iv had my fair share of fun already and wont have these curiousities about what iv missed out on...

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Ive ever only seen 1 guy who was over 6 feet tall..every1 else i know is 5'10" and under

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My brother is 6'3, mashaa'Allah. Actually all the guys in my family except for two of them are all above 6'0, mA.

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Nbn... all cleared out...... i come in peace :)

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btw, summers are back............... chick hunting seasooooooooooooooon...... .haha

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hmmm…i dont like very tall guys…they kinda look abnormal to me…:bummer:…but it also depends like brother in law is almost 6 feet tall and appi is 5’4…they look cute when she wear heels…but i have this friend…she is 5’9 and a really big girl and her husband is soooo skinny and a little shorter than her…they look really weird…

But me and my husband are perfect for each other..i am 5’3 and he is 5’9..PERFECTO…lol:p