dating/marrying whites

Lifestyle Relationships
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okay i got another relationship Q after reading posts on another forum…

I have noticed a lot of Indian girls are dating white guys. There aren’t many Pakistani girls dating whites compare to Indians. Muslim woman can only marry a Muslim man. Now my question is If majority of whites were Muslim, do you most Pakistani girls would be dating them over desi guys??

I mean, how come most desi ppl look up to them like they are superior to us??? why arn’t desi ppl proud of being desi like other races?? i personally believe desi ppl try to be white more than any other race (n.america and in uk).

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Re: dating/marrying whites

What about desi men marrying / dating white women? Why do you not take that into consideration?

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I know many desi date white girls but percentage of them marrying a white girl is quit low. A lot of them are with them for sex. trust me. That's why a lot of white girls don't like to date desi guys. Having said that, why desi (women/men) look up to them??

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white is too boring for me . .. .. .. I would not even think about dating a white girl .. :s .. :| unless she has exception personality :$

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Number of desi men marrying white females is still higher than desi women marrying whites.

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i don't think its about looking up to white guys or anything, its a matter of what you find attractive. if you've grown up your whole life surrounded by white guys, idolising your brad pitts and your george clooneys, with limited exposure to desi guys chances are thats what you'll find attractive.

if however, you grow up in india/pakistan/ or any community which has a large proportion of desis, then you probably think shahrukh khan and his like are good looking.

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I dont think people look upto them. I dont think its even as serious as all that you posted.

The people Ive seen marrying into white families marry because they've fallen in love. Also, I find non-desies to be less judgemental so that may play a part in the equation. Some people may have a very hard time finding a good rishta in the desi community because of education, lack of status, money, etc. They will find someone who is non-desi and doesnt care about those things They dont have to worry about mama's boys, the caste system, having at least a masters, etc.

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I'm white English...and live in a very multicultural part in East London....just tonight at Asda (walmart) to the Americans on this board....I have seen at least 3 couples in 30 mins.....desi guy...white girl...most with children (who are sooooooo cute)! Although I have noticed most of these white girls to be European (polish) etc.....I don't think it is the case of thinking whites are "easy" as stated in another post...I think it is the case of "you can't help who you fall in love with" and surely love marriages are better than arranged!??

I know one pakistani man who has brothers married to english...spanish and scottish!!
I have another pakistani friend who I get on really well with...no dating might I add! I respect his traditions etc and we get on great....the world is a big place. and it really does depend on the individual......some prefer english...polish...romanian....turkish...chinese...japanese...etc etc...lets all be happy as nothing should step in the way of LLUVVVVV!!