I agree with Shak and Reha. IMO, if a guy and girl go out for dinner, see a movie, or hang out and it’s just them, that’s dating… regardless of physical contact. And I don’t agree with that type of relationship unless if there are friends and family accompanying the “couple.”
While I say that, I have noticed that those who dated end up getting married and are happy. I’m sure the husbands are aware of the girls’ previous bfs, but they accept the girl.
MissTY’s point is interesting and I agree with it to a certain extent in that a girl shouldn’t be so sheltered that she doesn’t know how to interact with guys. But I don’t think one has to date in order to not appear awkward in front of guys.