Dating a non-desi guy

Couple of weeks ago I ran into this guy who used to be friends with someone I liked a very long time ago. All 3 of us were friends but then grew apart after some time. He was there with his sister and cousins. Talking to him, I remembered all the good times we had while studying for exams, and just hanging out etc. The guy is very familiar with Pakistani culture, and my parents were there and they were very nice to him and seemed to like him.

We’ve been texting and talking on facebook and on the phone as well. Couple of nights ago he said, “I like you and I want to take our friendship to the next level.” I opened up and told him about what happened with me and our mutual friend and how much it hurt and affected me. He said he was willing to wait for me and we should be friends.

He’s a great guy, has a nice personality and a strong character. He is Muslim btw, and I would seriously consider marrying him.

What do you guys and gals think? :slight_smile:

Oh and if it matters, he's black. :)

Re: Dating a non-desi guy

lol

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Hell no! Pakistani women should only marry Pakistani men. Anything else is haram etc. etc.

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this thread will close in 5..4...3..

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haza haram :)

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He sounds like a keeper…go for it :k:

I see. coughhypocritescough*

Thank you.

I would really like some serious replies. I know it sounds similar to another thread, but I felt since everyone was being so supportive or at least being serious about the guy dating a Turkish girl, I thought I would get the same courtesy here from you folks here.

Now I see I thought wrong.

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As long as he's muslim.... and the culture thing is not an issue for you, then why not????

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if you are considering marrying him and he is good...you like him..your parents like him..etc then go ahead..culture diff should not stop you aslong as you are willing to adjust.

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he sounds like a good guy...go for it!

Are you serious? I thought this was a joke thread where you pretty much copied the other thread and just substituted the girl for the guy!! That's what it came across as. But if you're serious, then I apologize for the comments above and wish you the best of luck in your endevours.

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:smack:

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Aww how cute. Keep him!

desi men are retarded.

so yeah ur on the right track.

:khumar:

that includes all including… :slight_smile:

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If you like him then you should go for it :)

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does he have two whirlwinds at top of his head

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Still haram. And I am damn sure I can find some Pakistani mullah to agree with me!

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:smack:CM Dating is but not marrying the guy