Dahej/Dowry ideas

Nah, i believe agar chaant waant kar achi cheezein jo aapkay paas hai woh blahay say nay dekhi hain you can take them along with you - like i have really good clothes etc which i have worn once twice but they are still as good as new so i don't mind taking them along with me since i would obviously live there after a few months so i'd need to have mix clothes for other days as well, i can't just keep on taking out new brand clothes all my life...but then the first few days when if not the in-laws then the people who come to meet and all do check out stuff like kaisay kapray pehnay, kitnay kangan, dekhay huay ya nahi etc...just like makeup if something is good and it looks good on you you would use it regardless of whether its chipped or broken here and there but when you go out and take such things out of the purse even if they are branded and highly expensive people would give you the weird look and all..