Dad & Khala

[Theorist]

Re: Dad & Khala

@pastriess1989

Is my dads behaviour acceptable towards me, over my objection? We were asked for our opinion. My mamus asked for our opinion. She’s my mums sister so she can ‘look after’ us without the marriage. And how can she look after us when she’s in Pakistan. I applied for her visa before this situation arised, week after mum passed away. Ironically it was rejected on the grounds of her return to Pakistan being uncertain.

It’s not even about the marriage itself. My dad’s changed towards me over her.

But your objection should have a solid reason. You have no reason! That is why he is acting out because you are not understanding what he is going through and perhaps he doesn’t understand what you have been through. You dad has a good reason to actually marry her because that way he can bring her here so she could look after you!

You seem to be taking this as if he is rejecting you over your KHala. He is not! You should understand his situation too. Raising kids is not easy and you still have a 14 year old to look after! You may not need her, but the 14 year old needs a mother.