Custody of Child

[USResident]

Re: Custody of Child

@PyariCgudia

excuse me, lets not throw around statistics just like that.

Kids who grow to be violent and were raised in a single family home by mom are not becoming violent because mom can’t control them, and for some weird reason men have that ability to discipline. I’ve seen lots of moms who are very strict disciplinarians and it would make sense from a Pakistani traditionalist perspective which people like Hareem endorse, since women are “meant to stay at home”. I mean, if you can’t discipline your child, and you can’t work to provide for your family, then you’re a pretty useless bag of flesh as far as I’m concerned.

Children raised in single family homes are exposed to other factors in the west: like ghetto neighborhoods with poor law control, less governmental influence and financial support, poorly paid teachers and poorly constructed and financed school programs, street gangs, negative pop culture and fashion, and negative peer and adult influences in the community.

Take a child and have mom raise it in an affluent neighborhood and mom is healthy and sound and the neighborhood and schools and people are healthy and sound, and you wont get a violent kid, more than likely.

And I see the start of a cat fight here. If you want to discredit Hareem then discredit the 70% statistics not her. Its not like she chose to make it up on her own. Ask for a source? Your attitude more than anything shows why women loose custody, its because they are rarely level headed. Single women raising children in afluent neighborhoods have a different set of issues. I would rather say this depends on a case by case basis and based on statistics single working mothers who make it into afluent neighborhoods are rare which means the probabibility of children with single mothers ending up in slummy or not so good neighborhood environments are more likely. These are just general observations and not rules and proper research can easily dsicredit this depending on what circumstances it is conducted in.