may you never come across any like them. but there are so many among families, individuals, at work or as strangers.
does it take you some time before you know just how poisonous a human snake is or could be?
when you know, that they are pepole snakes, how do you protect yourself from them?
share if you like.
Dushwari
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surround yourself with human mongooses, or is it human mongeese?
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Fraudia bhai, goose is fine. i was hoping, you would share something a lot more sagacious. :>
thanks,
Dushwari
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if i see one, i try and run as hard as i can in the other direction :) (yup call me a chicken)
but seriously, there will always be ppl who'll have an agenda against you (dont know why ppl just cant live peacefully!)... the best (and sometimes the only way) i feel is to ignore them! they WANT you to react so that they can turn around and do/ say something even more mean, so dont give 'em that opportunity.
Personally, i feel dua is the best rememdy, both for yourself, and the other person (ask Allah SWT to guide that person, and in return the angels make that same dua for us :) )
If only ppl knew the gunnah they were getting by hurting someone else, they'd stop, masla yeh hai that ppl dont really think about God, or the way in which Muhammad SAW carried and managed himself in different situations, and thats why wer'e screwed!
But iv'e seen this too often, what goes around, almost always comes around, and when it does, it hurts a million times more :(
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Fraudia bhai, goose is fine. i was hoping, you would share something a lot more sagacious. :> thanks, Dushwari
it is very sagacious, think about what I said.
a good group of ppl around you will not only protect you from getting involved with bad people, but will be there to help in the event some bad person has hoodwinked you.
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Dushi Bibi: aap itna kio sochti ho..logo kay baray main.
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if you are unlucky to be caught up with a snake, the only solution is to cut the snake into as many pieces as you can.
these snakes do what they do because it gives them a thrill. so don't be so foolish as to think that they'll reform or that their "conscience" (which is non-existent) will act as a brake on what they do.
the best way to deal with a snake is to feign friendliness and naivete, to deliberately fall for the snake's manipulation, but to wait for an opportunity to destroy the snake, and when you get that opportunity make sure you crush the snake completely, so that its soul is squeezed out of its pulverised body.
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I can usually spot them from a mile away.......and if you know one is coming your way ...you should always steer clear.....unless of course you like to be biten.
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keep away from these kind of muppets - give um the evil looks
:p
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i dont think its that easy to avoid them or to know that someone is a snake from far away cuz they are called 'snakes' for a reason. comments are great but none of them really helped me (personally, atleast) to know how to deal with them or how to get back at them, other than avoiding them. but u can only avoid them if some one has warned u already or once u r bitten.
Re: cunning nature of people-snakes
if you are unlucky to be caught up with a snake, the only solution is to cut the snake into as many pieces as you can.
these snakes do what they do because it gives them a thrill. so don't be so foolish as to think that they'll reform or that their "conscience" (which is non-existent) will act as a brake on what they do.
the best way to deal with a snake is to feign friendliness and naivete, to deliberately fall for the snake's manipulation, but to wait for an opportunity to destroy the snake, and when you get that opportunity make sure you crush the snake completely, so that its soul is squeezed out of its pulverised body.
errrrrr, wouldnt it be easy to just avoid it?
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Fraudia bhai, avoiding is at times as unavoidable, as aproaching could be... could you have less scary looking image in your screenicon?
thankyou.
best,
Dushwari
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avoiding is only unavoidable if you let it be.
and thats why i said, good ppl around u will watch out for you even if you are in a situation where u have to deal with a not so nice person
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Try to avoid them if you come across them.