according to the current Pakistani and Islamic (culture) view, what is the role of a man and a woman who is 30years of age?
do you agree or disagree with the prescribed roles?
parameter for the discussion: they are both educated, financially independent, stable and secure, decent and character-wise unquestionable, and have their own living space (rent or own a house).
Dushwari
Re: culture and gender
Hawk (thinkin')
Re: culture and gender
hawk dude, sleep some and then refresh yourself to stop thinkin and begin sharing your idea.
Dushwari sis, hi.
i think that both the man and the woman should see each other and decide to get married, buy a house and live in it together happily, as marriage is encouraged in Islam.
cheers!
Re: culture and gender
case_study,
that is one perspective, but dont you feel that people these days are scared of commitment, even when they are content in a pressured sense to be in a relationship out of spite or out of being tired of running away from their own selves, perhaps men do that alot often than any woman would have the heart to do so.
i guess in the sense that each to their own end, people become selfish and lose the sight of being true to themselves, because they may or may not be true in the first place.
so, when someone now a days is all set financially and socially, the impetus is to complete one's self and life, by getting settled.
any thoughts on which gender might feel it more than the other?
are people in Pakistani and from Islamic cultures confused about their actual interest and ability to truly commit now a days?
Dushwari