Re: Cultural Oppression
Kya kahengay? Ke apke andar koi kami hai isliye choti behnon ki shaadi pehle hogayi? Is baat ka darr hai apko?
My younger sisters got married before me. Its just the way it worked out and I cannot say I was unhappy with it. I was not ready for marriage and it was a relief to see them happy in their own lives versus waiting for me.
Aap kisi ka moon band nahin karsakti ho. In the beginning, I sat there and listened to all the aunti lectures of how I should stop being so picky and how selfish I am to let my parents worry about me in their old age. I even had one aunti tell me ke mera ego hadd se zyada bara hai. 
I listened and listened and listened and then got sick of it. Being single is apparently a disease that needs to be cured immediately by heavy dosages of marriage and children.
If you want to be me…you tell them horror stories of girls getting married too fast and dont they want me to be happy when I get married?
If you want to be tactful you say “bass aap dua karein”