Re: Cultural differences between Urdu-speaking people and Punjabis
But all the examples show certain families. Hardly cover all the Urdu speaking and Punjabi speaking people. These are generalizations. Urdu men more caring, Punjabi men more dominating etc are just like saying Muslim women are oppressed or that all African Americans are illiterate etc. Big huge generalizations. These simply might be true for "one" family, not an entire group of people. For example I come from a family which includes people from all over, yet I have not found these traits in just one group. And doubt ever will.
As for the whole gora kala thing. Thats simple. People from the Northern parts are more fair compared to people who are lets say from karachi etc. Its not that one is better looking than the other. Its just the regions. Physical looks differ from region to region inside of Pakistan, just as they do from country to country.