Well im not from pakistan but i have heard that in Pakistan its not usual to hug a girlfriend in public.is it true?well it is touchin me a lot.i’ve a pakistani boyfriend but i can accept that he never hugs me i society.i was thinking why.is it because of culture?he is so nice with me.and i never saw such as nice guy but i dont understan d this…**the question 4 those boy who are from pakistan:can u hug ur girls in public???**please,prety pleas can u give the answer.otherwise i dont know what to think…
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It’s not the end of the world if he doesn’t want to hug u in public. Isn’t it more important that he’s nice to you and he loves you? Different cultures have different norms. Recently an Israeli couple almost got jailed for kissing after they were married at a temple in India. The pundits were quite upset.
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It wasn't common when I left Pakistan back in 1996. I doubt much has changed regarding that. Even holding hands was a bit no-no. Maybe holding hands was ok at the beach or other romantic tourist spots, but that was it.
Oh and let me be the first one to tell you, your Pakistani boyfriend is just playing you and using you to put out the fire of desire that is burning inside him. He is a player, and don't believe anything he tells you. It's a common game amongst us Pakis to play around with non-Paki girls, have our fun and then either go back to get a wife, or marry a "pious" girl here. He probbaly brags to his other Paki friends how he has you wrapped around his finger.
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Well i wud say that public displays of affection are not common in pakistan at all… what u see is a lot of guys holding hands and hugging tho its nothing like wat u wud think… ur bf sounds like a dick. Hugging is against his culture, but uh dating a non-paki isnt?? Listen to dabba’s advice he as a paki guy would know how these guys work and think 
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Well no, its not common here still. Once in a while you do see couples kissing in the car :P but you don't really see anyone hugging in public
I think its more important to be loving n caring than showing affection in public
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On the other hand the non-pakistani girl is boasting to her friends she has this great intelligent family kinda guy wrapped aound her finger and its just a matter of time this fool will mary me… and many do!
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well we r 2gether as a couple 4 more than yr,but at still almost noone knows that.he didnt told even his friends.well i know that he is very quet person.ok,at least he told to his family.but u know there in country where are not his family it makes me 2 fell that he is hiding me.and it realy hurts,couse his friend who is as well my friend shows me more attention and care than himself.i mean usualy people think that my boyfriend are his friend more than my real boyfriened.and it realy hurts.i try 2 understand that its not in culture but in public his behavior is so cold that i even cant believe that we at least are friends.and i say again that it real hurts.
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Why is he hiding you like this ? Haven’t you asked him ? I think you two should discuss it in detail. We Pakistanis ARE a bit hesitant in showing public affection but the way you’re telling the story I don’t think its just about being a shy n quiet guy.
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well i gues i dont understand anything anymore…
everything was ok.he even asked can i go to pakistan with him 4ever.he is v sererious guy.i know him.he would never play with girl.i never saw so amazing person with so pure and caring heart.it always was my dream to go to paki 4ever.and he knows that.he never had a girl be4 me.and my body was pure be4 him.everything was ok,but now…i just dont understand anything at all…where is a problem?I HATE WHEN I DONT UNDERSTAND SMTH!!!
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well if he's asked you to come to pakistan...just why don't you ?
it will solve everything and your mind will be clearer
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talk about it with him....but would his family be ok him marrying a non-pakistani? would u be able to communicate with them etc? if his from pak, his family would mean alot to him....
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well,it just can happen now.he is studying in my country and he will for more than 5 yrs.and i need to study be4 we leave…
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we already talk.he has a v nice family.they r v lovely and i respect them v deeply.they know about me and they even like me…and he is teachin me urdu as well.actualy i already now smthing…im doing it v fast.because i found my self v crazy about that.
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Hmmmmmmmmm...
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Good Luck Miss Agate! Remember there might is a bit of a culture clash with him trying to learn your culture and you trying to learn his. So take it slowly and both of you should not expect each other to learn everything about eachother's cultures in a matter of a few months.
It is not normal for guys from Pak to show affection in public so don't feel bad. When you will go to Pak with him, you will learn a whole lot of other things girls and guys can/cannot do so be prepared and ask your boyfriend to educate you so that the culture shock for you is not immense or mind boggling.
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This forum is getting more idiotic by the freakin' second. Really.
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this is one of those stories that make me wanna do this:smack:
Good Luck girl!
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Thanks… .it realy helpes me.I get used 2 idea that i ll leave my country and i ll go pakistan.couse i fell in love with that.i reay wondering how its possible 2 feel smth like i feel about paki.i dont call them anymore his people…now they r mine.it can be funny but i love u guys:bukbuk: …thanks a lot Ruksharbibi!