crying grooms

[NeSCio]

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@Femme Fatale

A very freaky thought.

astaghfaar.

FF congratulations! I guess you must have found prince charming between the posting time and editing time of this post

[Man_with_a_Plan]

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NeSCio, men cry for the rest of their married life.

Its like the saying, single men die early but married men are alot more willing to kill themselves

[yourfriend]

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@Femme Fatale

…‘don;t worry mein inka bhaiyon ki tarha khayaal rakhoon ga’

…i wish i could witness that moment

[SolarOceans]

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A guy will cry cause he doesn't know what she's going to do to him on his wedding night.

Girls, be gentle. . .

[Femme_Fatale]

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@NeSCio

FF congratulations! I guess you must have found prince charming between the posting time and editing time of this post

lol. no actually I thought I should fear God and not say such things so blatantly. You never know when He might be in a qubool mood and i’ld be doomed by accident.

[Dushwari]

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i am amazed, we think that men cannot and should not cry.
maybe it is a gesture of happiness which only tears of joy can express.
i can understand if we frown on a man wearing a pink shirt or carrying a red bag being a bit off, but crying is a human thing to do.

[Femme_Fatale]

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there is nothing wrong with a pink shirt especially on slightly muscular tanned guys :o

[PhatBalongri]

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I would laugh if my hubby cries

[Sara516]

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@SolarOceans

A guy will cry cause he doesn’t know what she’s going to do to him on his wedding night.

Girls, be gentle. . .

LMAO

[saieen]

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she’d be doing →
me → :shoaby:
every1 else [jaan choti hum se isi liey :halo:]

[Sara516]

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@saieen

she’d be doing →
me → :shoaby:
every1 else [jaan choti hum se isi liey :halo:]

No i think its me
you ____________

[Afridi786]

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maybe they cry, because sum1 eventually tells him how bride actually is in reality.

[NeSCio]

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^perhaps it's not that someone tells them, but because after 4 hours the bride's make-up start to wear off and her true face emerges (add to that that the bride's tears also wash off any make-up).....that's why the groom starts crying :D

[fnp_23]

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@NeSCio

^perhaps it’s not that someone tells them, but because after 4 hours the bride’s make-up start to wear off and her true face emerges (add to that that the bride’s tears also wash off any make-up)…that’s why the groom starts crying

[Femme_Fatale]

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@NeSCio

^perhaps it’s not that someone tells them, but because after 4 hours the bride’s make-up start to wear off and her true face emerges (add to that that the bride’s tears also wash off any make-up)…that’s why the groom starts crying

Yes and he realises… oh God we are both equally ugly, there goes my only chance of having good looking children

[Sara516]

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@NeSCio

^perhaps it’s not that someone tells them, but because after 4 hours the bride’s make-up start to wear off and her true face emerges (add to that that the bride’s tears also wash off any make-up)…that’s why the groom starts crying

If he was too stupid to never ever ever ever seee her in person before getting married then he deserves to cry

[NeSCio]

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^and FF:

no, it’s not the boy’s fault. It’s a classical girl-trick. Typically (especially in desi settings) a boy and girl only meet at places/situations in which the girl is very much well dressed and made-up. How often do you think a girl shows her morning-face to her future hubby?

reminds me of this post of mine
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/showpost.php?p=4293165&postcount=5

disclaimer: the abovementioned views are hypothetical propositions. Whether I support them and to what extent cannot be concluded from these posts

[Sara516]

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@NeSCio

^and FF:

no, it’s not the boy’s fault. It’s a classical girl-trick. Typically (especially in desi settings) a boy and girl only meet at places/situations in which the girl is very much well dressed and made-up. How often do you think a girl shows her morning-face to her future hubby?

reminds me of this post of mine
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/showpost.php?p=4293165&postcount=5

disclaimer: the abovementioned views are hypothetical propositions. Whether I support them and to what extent cannot be concluded from these posts

Then he should stick to the love marriage, where he gets to see her everyday in school/at work (no secure, confident woman comes to school dressed for rishta chai thinggy :emmy: ) than taking a risk wiht the arranged.. :rolleyes:

[parissenoor]

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@SolarOceans

A guy will cry cause he doesn’t know what she’s going to do to him on his wedding night.

Girls, be gentle. . .

…:k: best joke!

[hira_ah]

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@NeSCio

hmmm…makes sense. So you’re saying that more than the physical separation, it’s the emotion of starting afresh, leaving your past behind etc etc? But this emotional argument also holds for the groom, right? (perhaps to a lesser degree but still) So a groom should be allowed to cry a little bit too?

i would say the crying part is more cause of the uncertainities…from the time u get engaged till the time u get married..of how things would + the actual separation itself..a girl moves into a new life..new ppl..new lifestyle..new scenerios..dependence on someone other than his dad and family…new responsibilities…saying bye bye to a carefree life

on the other hand the guy just gets one new responsibility…learning to spend on this new person added to the family…whatelse?..neither does he leaves his family.. nor does he get pregnant