Crushes :(

[baynishan]

Re: Crushes

@Nisha25

yea growing up in america there aren’t too many desi men around as there would be if we lived in pakistan. definitely take it slow and it’s just pain from a tiny crush, it will pass, time heals the biggest of emotional pain so compared to that your pain will hopefully heal soon. don’t rush into relationships or make any rash decisions right now since you’re emotionally down.

relax, pamper yourself, be around people that love you a lot through this tough time. hopefully it won’t last too long and you’ll be back to your happy self

@Nisha25

yea growing up in america there aren’t too many desi men around as there would be if we lived in pakistan. definitely take it slow and it’s just pain from a tiny crush, it will pass, time heals the biggest of emotional pain so compared to that your pain will hopefully heal soon. don’t rush into relationships or make any rash decisions right now since you’re emotionally down.

relax, pamper yourself, be around people that love you a lot through this tough time. hopefully it won’t last too long and you’ll be back to your happy self

i know, that is the problem. girls who are living outside of pakistan have such hard time with this whole shadi issue. even though i might have sound like a very picky person by calling men here losers, and talking about my ideal men, but i am really not that picky (unless saying no to a rishta because they wants to marry you for moving to america count as being picky) i hope it doesn’t take too long either. it sorta get really hard when most of your friend are married/engaged/dating/becoming doctors because at time like this when i should be calling one of them for comfort i am here on this forum talking to complete strangers who might be judging my mental conditions (this was for Mr. diwana :D)
thank for the advice nisha, i will try to pamper and relax my self. keep me in your prayers.

@diwana

**You do know they do make up in movies or TV and teach them what to say how to say.
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what if he is a host/anchor doing a live show i don’t think they are scripted as much (and no he is not sahir lodhi :D)

@diwana

Anyhow, what I meant is if you had good exposure to adult men and women then the conversation among them should have been enough to know not to even get a crush or if you did, then not to get to the point of feeling ‘hurt’.
Most men-women have perfect answer/solutions for these feelings. Something they do privately and get done with. And then they say next!

yes i have a good exposure to adult men and women, but the problem is that those men aren’t good enough to be crushed for. and about your second suggestion…it brought me back to the question you asked me first. DO YOU HAVE a good exposure to real men and women? or this private job* of urs makes up for this?