Re: Crushes 
You do know they do make up in movies or TV and teach them what to say how to say.
Anyhow, what I meant is if you had good exposure to adult men and women then the conversation among them should have been enough to know not to even get a crush or if you did, then not to get to the point of feeling ‘hurt’.
Most men-women have perfect answer/solutions for these feelings. Something they do privately and get done with. And then they say next!