Crushes, Friends, and Siblings

About a month ago one of my brothers asked me why I dont have any “nice” friends. I asked him what he meant and he suggested that I make some friends that he could possibly “consider” in the future. Why he said that, I have no idea. He knows I am not a social butterfly. Plus, how do I go about making friends with the intent that this girl might be my future sister in law. sigh Once my brother told me to go and talk to a girl and become friends with her because she seemed nice. This was at an islamic-related function. I dont know how to do that! I dont know if its even right for me to do that.

Has this happened with you? What do you do??? sigh


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[This message has been edited by Munni (edited February 24, 2002).]

Hmm well speaking from personal experience if I liked a girl I ussually ask my sis's opinion of her...but never netted one with my sisters help.

Thap, does your sister also ask your opinions on certain boys? just curious. Don't mind it.

Nah she’s older and married.

Opinions are just opinions Yogi.

But if I had a younger sis, sure I’d tell her all men and *******s and she should stay way from them until she’s 50, then maybe start thinking about marriage

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A lot of people are just good enough to be your friend but not good enough to be your sib's partner.

Too many ****ing morons out there.

^-- Ya, goes true for either of the genders

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Kambakht Ishq!

lerkian bhi shamil hein ismein…

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aur haan, moun se koi baat nahin nikalti kia gali diaye baghair?..
God bless u all…

DerVaisH


muhabatein theen kabhi apne dermian kitni…
bicha gaye hai anna hum mein doorian kitni…
abhi to toota hai dil hi teri judai mein…
girein gi hum pe abhi aur bijlian kitni…

In my opinion my sister could be a better choose for my life partner. along with my mother..

this idea is not that un-islamic afterall...

if i like a girl, i would surely call my mother or sister to go forward on my behalf..

but having an eye on the sisters friend .. is not na good idea...


Dont think "you can" know "you can"
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The difficulty for me comes in the fact that what I like in a girl may not necessarily be what my brother would want in a wife. I used to have a pretty good idea as to what kind of wife he wanted, however he has recently shown interest in qualities different from what I had originally thought. It must be so difficult for parents, I cant even imagine. sigh


Learn to love yourself, then learn to love one-another

well i m not going to read anything…itna itna lamba pata naheen log likh kaisey likhtey hain…

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Best Place to kill your time is WWWeb.

hehe. Well you said you prefer the other gallery, now I know why! smile


Learn to love yourself, then learn to love one-another