Crossroads

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Hello ppl. I m bak. Sum kind ppl messaged me 2 ask bout my meeting. Sorry I cudnt reply as I hv been terribly buzy.

Well I met her last saturday. She sed dat she wants 2 get bak wid me but she said she wud really appreciate if I dnt ask her why did she leave in da first place. How weird is dat? I love her 2 much to lose her but I really wanna know about dis. Was it sumthing I did? waz it some misunderstanding? jitters? what.

U girls r so yuck at times I tell you.

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poondi, maybe she refused to put up with someone who uses so many numbers in english.

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:rolleyes: and what if u didnt call her… would she have tried contacting u and getting back with u again?

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come over poondi honey, we'll go to a pub and drown our sorrows together.

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pondi that’s cute story :hug: i wish good luck and all the best! some people are too shy to express their problems event to those they love…she is maybe scared to lose you if she tells you the whole truth, or to hurt…better not to dig! accept her the way she is and be happy man! :flower1:

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Oh my … well, don’t blame yourself and don’t doubt yourself either. Maybe in time she will tell you what happened. If you really want to be with her despite this secrecy and how she treated you, then I wish you both the best of luck together. :flower1: I know it will be extremely difficult for you, but try not to make what happened in the past make you insecure about your future with her or anybody else should things not work out with her this second time. It’s a bit unfair of her not to give you an explanation … but like you said, you don’t want to lose her. If you can live with not knowing what happened, and she can move on and be with you too, then best of luck. :flower1:

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U deserve an explanation, go ahead and meet her. If this girl is in ure destiny then u will definately inshallah get her and i hope that things go in ure favour!

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What ever she is going to unleash on you, you may not be able to handle it (She knows it). At the moment you seem more curious than in love.
There is no need to share a secret if you feel you can't follow through with it. Putting things behind and moving on is not everyone's cup of tea. The worst thing you can do is share and back off.

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She may opt to tell u after some time…u know her better than us, so i guess u can tell if she means it this time or not…good to hear so far it’s going as u wanted…i wish u the best and Inshallah u two can move past this whole thing quickly :blush:

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something does nto sound right here just being honest .

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MehnazQ

Yes U make a lot of sense. I think I shud shut up n consider it as a testing phaze of our relationship.

Fayz

Try puttin urself in my shoes, u will know y I wanted 2 know the reason. But I guess sum things r out of our own control.

parissenoor

yes I guess I will just move on.

KashmiriRainDrops

Dats wat I am counting on but I guess in the long run it mite not even matter if she tells me or not.

insan

How old r u?

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Yes, only time will tell :slight_smile: So far so good?