Criticizing inlaws

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Re: Criticizing inlaws

@pakigirl33

Thanks for the help. Actually this will be my second time meeting him and I usually don’t talk to him much. My daughter does know how to say salaam and she even said it in her own way but I think he didn’t hear it. I have been giving her islamic teachings including kalma but she can’t say it as her speech is not very clear .

That’s good. :k: So, if FIL does say anything again in the future, let him know you’re teaching her but her speech is still developing so it’s unclear. Keep it simple, don’t turn it into an argument or confrontation. And let him know whenever your daughter has said the salam. That way he will respond to her salam so she gets the dua, and it lets her know it wasn’t ignored, and he’ll see that she’s trying but that her developing speech will take time. Reminds me of when my niece would say “ash-shaman” ..that was her way of saying salam, lol.