No offense but i think ur friend is being a big ol wiatch. And "Annie" shouldn't be sharing so much so freely.
frankly I think such women who always make mean and negative comments about others spouses, are just home-wreckers b/c they place doubt in the mind of the person venting.
If i ever complain about my husband, the people i choose to share are mature enough to NOT talk in that way. rather they help me see why he's acting in a way that im complaining about him.
mein kita ki hai?...speako...